Change is constant !

I normally like to read the questions that people ask on different platforms- magazine,newspaper or internet.
One of the common problems I see is "I am XX yrs old and I've a boy/girl friend.We had good relation for past one year.Now s/he has started changing a lot'.

The same goes with my wife - she'll say the same. You're not the same at "that time'.
So I just wanted to share what I think on this:

Every human being is changing every moment - whether the person is aware or not. Every moment of life is showing something different.
You don't question when your son/daughter is changing in early years - this is natural.Then why not the same for the grown ups.
And whoever is having this concern - let them ask themselves - are they the same as they're yesterday. It can't be - you're elder by 24hrs,
You've seen something in these moments.If anyone can take a video session of a day and compare after 1 year , will it be the same - obviously not.

Now the point is how fast or slow we grow and whether we're present to that.Most of us are not aware of this growth.Then there is no point of accusing the other person.